Frequently Asked Questions

1. What does Silver Connections do?

   
   Silver Connections services are FREE to you, your family, and other professionals. We save you time by helping find the community that best fits your lifestyle, location you desire, budget, and the support you need. When you call Silver Connections you will receive support throughout the whole process. We can even provide referrals for Senior Move Managers, Realtors, Elder Law Attorneys, Reverse Mortgage Specialists, etc.
    

2. What do I do when my Mom refuses to move?

   
   You are not alone. Seniors do have a difficult time moving from their home to a senior community. The thought of moving is overwhelming for most of us and even more so to a senior. Families tend to wait too long to make a decision which can be detrimental to the senior. Isolation is one of the key declining factors in a senior’s health.
   
   Take her to tour some properties. Most communities will invite her to a luncheon or special event where she can interact with the residents. These are usually fun and your Mom can get an idea of what living in a community would be like.
   
   If she insists on staying in her home there are home care providers that can assist her. If she gets too frail it may be a better option to move her into a community where they can assist her with her daily living tasks and it may be less expensive as well. There are so many options and care choices that will help your Mom to remain independent longer. Keep your Mom involved throughout the process so she doesn’t feel like you’re pushing her into something she doesn’t want to do.
    

3. I promised my Dad I’d never put him into a “home”. He’s afraid to leave his house. Now that he needs help how do I convince him that this is the best option?

   
   If he fears growing older and not being able to take care of himself then moving into a community is the ideal situation for him. He will be able to live freely, enjoy other seniors in the same setting and a safe environment, and have nutritious meals available to him.
    

4. I feel guilty about moving my Mom out of her home. How do I overcome this feeling of guilt?

   
   You are actively trying to help your Mom. Your Mom will be able to make new friends. She will be active and she’ll probably have more fun than she would have at her old house.
    

5. Will I lose my independence if I move out of my house and into a community?

   
   No, you will not lose your independence or freedom. You will actually gain more freedom and a new lifestyle. You will be busy enjoying time with friends and family and not tied to a home that needs maintenance, daily upkeep, etc.
    

6. Should I have my parents move in with me?

   
   No. Children should enjoy their time with their parents and not reduce the relationship to caregiver. Sometimes taking care of parents can lead to feelings of anger, disappointment, and exhaustion. Caregivers tend to miss more work, have less free time, and have more episodes of depression. However, if this is something you want to do, give it a go. Just be prepared for health changes in your parents such as incontinence, mental status, and neediness.